personifying your charm

Register to start creating personals or login and interact with your matches!

How does it Work?

Create a new account! You can match 100 times for free before having to buy more tokens.
Create an anonymous personal describing who you are, what you are looking for and in which city you are located.
Decide how many other personals you would like to match when creating your personal.
Chat with your matches and easily cancel them if you feel nothing is working. Then create more personals!


Personal Based

Do not worry about maintaining a profile that you have to constantly adapt to suit your changing needs. We believe that fundamentally everyone is the same but our needs are constantly changing. With our personal based anonymous approach, there is much greater flexibility in deciding how you want to safely and anonymously project yourself to the world.

Unique Matching Engine

Our matching engine brings economics to the world of personals. You decide how many tokens you would like to spend per personal. Your personal will match the corresponding number of other personals. There is no need to scroll through many faces. Create a personal, spend tokens and get relevant matches. The rest is history.


While any personal you write is completely anonymous, there exists the option to verify with personly directly, thus ensuring you are only able to match other verified people and lessen the potential to match fake accounts. So you stay hidden but everyone knows you are a real person.

Only Pay for what you Use

Our unique token system ensures that you only spend tokens when creating a personal. Forget about subscription based services which charge you monthly even when you already have met someone or simply want to take a break. And guess what, upon registration you can create and match up to 100 personals for free!

Completely Anonymous

Privacy is of utmost concern and a fundamental component of our platform. Besides having a ban on all third party tracking cookies, we only require personally identifable information if you decide to optionally verify your account. Browse and explore your matches in total anonymity, revealing yourself only when you choose and without the pressure to upload a picture.

'Who Writes First' Solved

Many dating platforms struggle with the 'who writes first' conundrum, however personly has an elegant solution for it. If you create a personal that remains open, anyone responding to your personal must write first since you are the creator of the match. If you create a personal that is matched instantly, you are the responder and must therefore write first. Simple!

Use Cases


You are single and actively seeking a long term relationship, however vacation is coming up and you want to let your hair down a bit. We have you covered! Create a personal for your hometown expressing your desire for a relationship, and create another personal at your vacation destination which allows you the freedom to enjoy yourself however you wish.

Exploring Yourself

You are eager to explore a different side of yourself but are not ready to reveal your identity yet in terms of displaying a photo, birthday, or real name for the world to see. No problem! Simply create multiple personals expressing your different selves; do not worry about trying to fit one profile to all cases, or constantly updating the same profile to suit your changing needs.

Strictly Platonic

Do not feel the pressure to date or meet the love of your life when creating a personal using our platform. Whether you are travelling to a new city and are eager to meet a local for a short tour, or just need someone to talk to, there is no problem at all with stating something that is strictly platonic and thus removing the annoying 'pressure of expectations' from all meetup situations.

Visible Figure

Often people in more public roles such as a teacher do not want to post their information on dating apps for fear of their students seeing them or finding out something personal about their lives! The same could be true for your coworkers, etc. With personly, your anonymity is protected across all these cases and will be revealed by you only.


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